Wednesday, February 8, 2006

Feeling better today

Good COLA meeting tonight despite the lame subject. Claire was able to join us and managed to stay politically correct for the whole evening, but we had fun anyway. Tea at The Goat after was good as usual. Perhaps we will make it to brunch this Sunday as well.
My cold is starting to fade, thankfully. I generally don't get bad colds, just bad enough to annoy me.
So looks like another full weekend. Friday and Saturday evenings are booked as well as a possible brunch on Sunday. Details forthcoming. In fact as it turns out our weekends are booked into March. So much for trying to take it easy for a bit. Oh well, it's all fun.
That is all I have for now.

XO

Tuesday, February 7, 2006

Monday, February 6, 2006

Something to look forward to

Well not so much to say today. Got through another day of work. Three weeks from now I will be starting up a week off work. I am so looking forward to that. We will be starting the holidays off with a weekend in Ottawa to celebrate my guy's birthday. Thanks to Tara for the accommodations. I think I am going to take a day to head to Trenton to check out the old stomping grounds. That should be... Interesting. And one day will be set aside to be a Mike and Gord day. Destination to be determined.
So winter seems to be back and frankly I think it sucks. It has been so nice these last couple weeks and now this. Top it off with me getting a cold. Makes Mikey one unhappy boy.

That's all I have for tonight...

Sunday, February 5, 2006

Last night, today, and the trick that does my taxes

Reelout 7 came to an end for us last night with the screening of the gay short films. All were quite good but SURFACING took the prize in my opinion followed closely by STARCROSSED. Both movies well worth taking in if you get the chance. Today seems to be turning out to be a lazy day which will not amount to doing much more than heading downtown for coffee.
So Mr Wolfe and Jenn dragged me to the bar last night along with Wolfe's hot friend J. By the way J, if I read you right you have integrety. Nice to see. Anyway, I digress. The bar. The bar was dead when I arrived with the group around midnight. Yeah, I was gone by 12:30AM. Really shoulda saved myself the $5.00 though I really wanted to go for my friends. As most of my friends will attest to I think, I will do just about anything I can for them. I just couldn't stay though. So back home to my guy I went. Of course he was sound asleep but it was good to just snuggle up to him.
As I couldn't sleep I went and layed in bed with Wolfie after he got home. We tend to do those late night de-briefings after the bar. My drama left about 18 months ago so all I have now is his... Better you than me Mr Wolfe.
Something to ponder: As a guy who has been known to pick up at the bar I have no issue with bringing a trick home. My issue comes in the morning, or whatever time the trick heads out. I am prone to offereing a phone number, email, MSN or whatever and then just leaving the ball in their court. The offer has been avoided but never actually denied. I guess what would impress me the most is to just have a guy say that he had a good time but really wasn't interested in anything else. I would much more respect that than to play the game of exchanging info only to have the guy avoid any further contact. If we all just had the balls to be upfront about it in the beginning there could be much less drama and disappointment.

As a funny footnote to that. The one trick that I picked up online, invited over and had sex with without making any effort to exchange info with has ended up back in my life as a good friend. Imagine my surprise when my boyfriend starts talking about this guy he has been chatting with online and the pieces start falling together and it turns out to be an old trick... Funny. By the way C, tax time is here and I have my T4. Better sharpen your pencils.

Friday, February 3, 2006

Sleepless nights and weekend plans

Not sure what happened but all of a sudden I am dead tired. Maybe it was that sleepless I-had-a-latte-after-9PM Wednesday night. Funny how that works. If I have stuff on my mind it doesn't keep me up. If I have coffee in the evening it doesn't keep me up either. Put the two together and I'm tossing and turning all night. Thank goodness Dan sleeps VERY soundly. I don't know how other people deal with sleepless nights. Oddly something Mr Wolfe and I have not discussed. I really should consult with him since he IS the expert in this field. Anyway, when I can't sleep I will just lay there and toss and turn and get more and more frustrated. I refuse to get out of bed, though really I know I might as well. It's kind of like admiting defeat to me if I get up. I don't mind admitting defeat in a fair fight but I just can't allow myself to let insomnia get me, even though sometimes it does.
In case you are wondering what is on my mind keeping me up, it is most likely finances. I really want to get my shit together and buy my house and I have serious doubts that I will be able to pull it off. I am so doubtful in fact that I don't even want to look into it. I mean really, who likes rejection. Other than that is just the general lack of money to play with. I always tend to have that on my mind.
I am so glad it is Friday. This weekend is the end of Reelout. We will be seeing our last screenings on Saturday evening. After that my presence is requested by Jenn and Mr Wolfe at The Foo. Still undecided on that, we'll see how it works out. I keep saying every time I have gone out lately that I am going to just get plastered but I never seem to do it. I think that time is coming soon.That's it, that's all... Night kids...

Money in... Money out...

Did ya'll miss me last night? No blog... I'm sure my 3 readers managed. Well one was in bed, he reads them in the morning at work anyway. The other was here too since he was working a rare early morning shift so he'll have to catch it later. Of course his being here prevented him from posting his own blog too. Never fear, Mr Wolfe will be back this evening I'm sure with more trials and tribulations that make up his life. And Jenn... Well I'm really not sure when you read them but we'll catch up at work anyway.
If I have any other readers I don't know who you are...
So today is payday. And now that I have paid all my bills I have nothing left. This is the usual way of things. In reality I do have a bit left but I need to keep it in the bank to cover some payments that will come out before my next pay. This seems to be the way of things for me. There really dosn't seem to be much left for me to spend. In the end I really won't complain much because I really do live quite well. Sometimes I do wish it wasn't quite so tight though (not a complaint one usually hears from me). I am in a spending mood and would like to buy myself something pretty. I so need a financial advisor. Meh... Whatever.Later...

Wednesday, February 1, 2006

Afternoons & Coffeespoons

Hey all...
I'm told my life is not all that boring (thanks Jenn with two Ns) and I guess in reality I know it isn't. I always seem to be busy and all but when I sit here every night to sum up my day in words it doesn't seem to sum up to much.
Work was good. Went by a bit slow but like every other day I got through it. Actually worked the whole day, no VTO for me.
Tonight was COLA night, picked up Dan and Meghan and headed over to discuss bisexuality. It was discussed that a study revealed that bisexuals think of sex twice as often as any other group. Makes me wonder if I am bisexual. I mean I would do Ashley Judd. As an aside, sadly, only half the group even knew who Ashley Judd is. Okay so I know I'm not bisexual cuz really I am all about the cock... But Ashley is hot.
As always (can I say that since for me "always" constitutes last week and this week) we went to The Goat for tea after the meeting. That is always fun as we get to really chat with the other people in the group. Thankfully crazy guy did not show up this week. Jenn stopped by which was cool, nice to mix it up a bit. Hmmm, wonder if she did just cuz Natasha was there? Meh, its a good reason. Bryan stopped by as well... Eat your heart out Gord. Well my boy is in bed and looking lonely so I will say ta-ta for now...